Benefits of counselling

FAQs

For people who are known for their listening skills, counsellors can sometimes talk a lot!  We tend to be passionate about good mental health and want to share information - especially on our websites! If you are considering counselling and simply want to know the basics about what I offer, why not check out my… Continue reading FAQs

Benefits of counselling

Mamma mia; here I go again!

Don't worry, there are no spoilers here!  I'm talking about those times when you find yourself thinking the same old thoughts and doing the same old things.  Some people liken it to playing the same old record, going round and round on a carousel, or finding themselves trapped on a downward spiral. For some reason… Continue reading Mamma mia; here I go again!

Benefits of counselling

A question of perspective

We use things to enhance our view all the time.  Us humans like to look at stuff, whether it's other people, the natural world, or crazy cat videos on Youtube.  We might pop on a pair of glasses or magnify the screen to find the information we need to satisfy our curiosity. Perspective is also… Continue reading A question of perspective

Benefits of counselling

The power of words

A friend observed recently how powerful and enduring words are.  She's right.  It probably wouldn't take you or I too long to recall things said to us years ago that still ring in our ears, and maybe echo in our hearts.  And the chances are that those words weren't kind or encouraging.  They probably cut… Continue reading The power of words

Benefits of counselling

Chickens and depression

For a number of years we have kept chickens, and generally let them free range (unless DEFRA tell us otherwise).  I love to watch them mooching around the garden, looking for interesting things to peck at, scratch up, or pass to each other.  Mostly, I'm fascinated that they can display an amazing number of emotions… Continue reading Chickens and depression

Benefits of counselling

I’m sorry, I haven’t got a clue!

When it comes to depression, most people will struggle to explain how they feel.  Utterly overwhelmed by their symptoms, they can find it very difficult to pin down what exactly is wrong.  Concerned friends and family may genuinely want to understand what is happening but phrases such as, "I don't know, I just feel awful"… Continue reading I’m sorry, I haven’t got a clue!

Benefits of counselling

“Where’s your couch?”

"Where's your couch?" It's a question I'm often asked.  And I can see the apprehension in their eyes.  The idea of lying down, feeling vulnerable and exposed, can become a huge hurdle in seeking therapy.  For the record, I don't have a couch, or a clipboard.  What I do have is a light airy room… Continue reading “Where’s your couch?”